Take Control Be What You Would Like To Be 

This is not another self-improvement book.

It is a practical guide to designing your life — on your own terms. 

Take Control – Be What You Would Like To Be is the core expression of the EXEMPLUM Project.

It does not offer motivational slogans or abstract theory. Instead, it presents a clear and practical framework for personal development, based on real-life application and experience.

At its heart lies a simple but powerful question: What do you want to become?

From there, the book guides the reader through a structured process to define direction, set priorities and design a meaningful personal journey.

The methodology is built around: 

• six steps and, 

• six fundamental principles, 

forming a practical system for long-term personal planning and accomplishment

🎯 What you get

Through this book, you will:

• gain clarity about your goals and direction

• organise your thinking and priorities

• design a realistic personal plan

• develop discipline and consistency

• turn intention into action

👤 Who it is for

This book is for anyone who wants to take control of their life:

• young people searching for direction

• individuals at a turning point

• those who want to redesign their path at any stage of life

No special background or ideal conditions are required. Only the willingness to act.

This book is for those feeling ready to get their lives in order and plan their journey to personal accomplishment. Not for becoming planning freaks, but for drawing, step by step, the journey to wished destinations and getting rid of useless stuff, wasting their time and energy.   It is a practical guide, for those being ready to take the turn and seize responsibility for what is happening to them.

🧠 The core idea

Exemplary individuals are not defined by talent or luck, but by clarity, planning and consistent action.

🧭 The mere truth

You don’t wait for the right moment.
You create it, by deciding who you want to become and taking the first step.

Success can have several meanings and can include infinite subjectiveness. However, taking control and reach accomplishment, it is totally objective and unique. As unique as any of us!